Imagine trying to plan an improvisational event. It’s kind of like trying to study for a class for which you haven’t registered yet.

The recurring problem I have in trying to live an improvisational life is my need to make plans. Deep in my heart of hearts, I’m a planner; organizing things calms me. I like schedules and lists; I like to know what’s coming. And when it will get here. And if I have to sign for it.

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Honestly, I was a bit apprehensive about coordinating A’s birthday session. I mean it had seemed like a good idea at the time, but what should I plan? How would I plan? I liked the idea of creating spontaneous music to celebrate A and her landmark birthday, but what exactly should I prepare?

I resolved to trust my intuition and improvisational skills and show up – mentally and spiritually, as well as physically (c;.

I made a list of singing activities I thought I could guide. I reviewed the list a couple of times and discussed it with some friends and listened for the “click.” (More on the “click” later.) I knew my audience would be playful and willing to participate. I had more ideas than I could possibly present, so I could feel out the group for what would fit best. Most important, I had my love of spontaneous singing to guide me.

The event was a success. I had a great time and we created a special and unique celebration for the birthday girl. I learned (once again) that some things can’t be planned or scheduled; they can only be given a space and time in which to grow and become.

Remember. Life is an improvisational event. Sure, we make plans and set goals, but we don’t control everything. In order to be successful and happy in our lives, we have to develop our improv skills and learn to trust our intuition – to listen for the “click” of things falling into place.

Gloria Steinem said, “Without leaps of imagination, or dreaming, we lose the excitement of possibilities. Dreaming, after all, is a form of planning.”

Ah, how that comforts me.