Archive for October, 2009

Food for Thought (#23)

Posted by on Oct 08 2009 | Food For Thought, Passion Pays the Bills, Songtaneous

More on deciding:

“Nothing happens until you decide.”
— Dr. Stanley Turecki
(Hmm … looks like we’ve mistakenly been giving Oprah Winfrey credit for this quote.)

“You’ve got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you’re not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice.”
— Steven D. Woodhull

“Make decisions from the heart and use your head to make it work out.”
—Sir Girad

Remember: Songtaneous is tomorrow –  Saturday, October 10.
Visit the Events page to see the entire Songtaneous schedule.

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Passion Pays the Bills: Deciding

Posted by on Oct 05 2009 | Passion Pays the Bills, Singing Lessons, Songtaneous

Last Monday, I posted a list of ideas about How to Take Your Passion and Pay the Bills. I said I wasn’t quite sure what would happen with the list. In the past week, I’ve decided (*wink*) that most of the items could use some further explanation. So let’s start with number 1: Decide.

Oprah Winfrey says “Nothing happens until we decide.” (I agree.)

We can spend a lot of time making decisions. We get stuck. We procrastinate. We spin round and round, looking for THE ONE PERFECT answer. (Well, I do, anyway.) We’re cautious (because we’re afraid). After all, we want to make sure we’re making the right decision.

We’re unable to separate deciding what to do from figuring out how to do it.

For example, when deciding to change my entire life by returning to school, it took me a long (long, long) time and a lot of steps to get there.

Looking back, all the time and steps I took to make that decision were really about getting ready to make and keep a commitment.

(Plus, I believed I could find out EXACTLY what I was getting myself into without actually doing it. Oh, it’s a good thing, I started studying singing spontaneously! *wink*)

I’ve learned from improvising that the seed of an idea can be enough. That not every “i” can be dotted or “t” can (or should!) be crossed before you commit to trying something. That you can work things out as you go. That you can start and stop and start again.

Once I decided I wanted to sing (and maybe even try to make a living doing it *smile*), I was able to focus on and put my energies toward that. I could ask questions and find answers and get support.

You may not have found your passion yet. That’s okay.

You can decide to look for it.

Reminder: The next Songtaneous session is this Saturday, October 10.
Visit the Events page to see the entire Songtaneous schedule.

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Food for Thought (#22)

Posted by on Oct 02 2009 | Food For Thought, Inspirational, Songtaneous

“Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.”
Howard Thurman

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