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Do You Sound Great?

Posted by on Feb 20 2011 | Songtaneous

This coming March, I’ll present Songtaneous for the group Woman of Today. I got connected to the group through a friend who’s an editor at the woodworking magazine where I used to work. Since she’s a writer, she did a write-up about Songtaneous and me for the group’s newsletter and sent it to me for proofing.

As she requested, I read through it to check for inaccuracies (there were none *smile*) and reported back to her, “Wow, I sound great!”

She generously replied, “Of course you sound great; you are great!”

Well, how come we don’t always remember that?

I mean, I like to think my self-esteem’s healthy (my friends compliment me frequently on my positive self talk) and that I give myself credit for my talents and accomplishments.

Sometimes, though, I get so head-down, nose-to-the-grindstone occupied in the day-to-day of creating my music career, that I forget to stop and smell the roses. (Or smile and update the resume.)

It’s like Jen’s Friday quote.

Why are most of us better at championing others before ourselves?

Why do we look at the lives of others and see Pollyanna potential and possibilities and look at our own lives and see stagnant, cloud-covered dead-ends?

What about this?

What if you were Pollyanna about your life? What if you sent Eeyore packing?

What if you tooted your own horn?

What if you championed yourself the way you champion your best friend?
Or your spouse? Or your child?

What if you decided you were great?

Okay? Now, go write your bio.

(Or get someone else — a writer if you’re lucky — to do it for you. *grin*)

Include your accomplishments. The ones that matter to you.

Don’t stop until you sound great.

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Food for Thought (#81)

Posted by on Feb 17 2011 | Food For Thought, Songtaneous

“I can be very Pollyanna positive for everyone else in my life except when it comes to me and then I’m like Eeyore and the apocalypse … really dark.”
– Jennifer Parker

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Singing to Myself

Posted by on Feb 14 2011 | Listening, Reviews and Recollections, Sarah Sings, Songtaneous

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One of the things I enjoy about improvising with words is what I discover about my state of mind. Sometimes, I uncover what I’m thinking or feeling as I hear the words come out of my mouth. It’s a strange, somewhat surreal and very open experience.

I sang this on our first singing day in Tenerife. While singing, I explored the connection I felt to the people and the place. (I felt this connection over and over again during my time there.)

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